How to get another outcome?

Why do we keep doing the same thing over and over again and expecting another outcome?

If you feel that something’s off in your life, out of balance, if it is not working for you, then the only way to get out if that conundrum is by getting out of your comfort zone and start making different decisions.

Why is that so hard to do? It has to do with your thoughts, with what you believe is right. ¬†We think that if we keep doing what we are doing that maybe one day something will stick and into a different direction. But that of course ain’t happening.

We are master in manipulating our thoughts, our words so they match our belief system, even if we know that what we are doing is not working for us. That’s also the reason why it is so hard to convince people of another way of looking at things. Take a look at people around you, listen to what they are always talking about, and see if there is some kind of pattern in their lives. Maybe you never thought about it but I bet you see patterns all over, especially with older people. We call it set in their ways. But we all have those patterns and behaviors that for the most part are no longer working for us.

So what to do if you do want to make a change? Well there is a way to get an unbiased look at what goes on inside you and that is by working from your right brain, your mysterious unconscious mind. Here there is no judgment, no belief system, so for example if you paint from your unconscious brain you get an unbiased look at yourself and your behavior patterns and you even “see” in the picture you paint why it is not working for you.

So next time you want to make a change, go out of your comfort zone, pick up a brush and let this brush paint you a picture, the picture of your life. Best part is that you don’t even have to be an artist for it and it is fun and definitely eye opening.

 

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